Woman, seeking sense of who she is, of how she wishes to live her daily life, letting its patterns and rhythms express her deepest values. Woman, today under pressure, faced with the temptation today to live out her life in the realm of the masculine, denying her own needs, mistrusting her fatigue, ignoring the anguish of her own struggle. Her task will be to gain the help and support of her inner masculine side, and to return to the values of the Archetypal feminine as she grounds her life in the order and clarity that nurture her. I would like to quote you a piece from one of my favourites books THE CIRCLE OF STONE, a woman gifted with abundant creativity, never certain whether she possesses it, or it possesses her, wrote the following,
“For me the balance between doing and just being is the most important and dangerous question. IF I am guilted or lured into achieving too much and lose the stillness in my centre, then it takes me a long time to regain it and I do violence to myself or those I love because of fatigue and pressure. I have had to give up “winning big” because I love my life when I am connected to it. I hate it when it and I get caught up in competition and deadlines. Then I have an overriding sense of impatience, my foot taps…….. I gulp down my food whole……… I spill coffee when I am pouring and burn myself on the stove…… I rip, and wrench and tear. There is a violence that takes over every act and shrieks orders at me.
I am finding it takes a lot of time to be a woman, to have an inner feeling of space and breath, a chance to sink into myself…… as long as I take time to light a candle to my life, it remains my life. But if I hurry into work without that small moment of quiet then I have already lost myself for the rest of the day. The task for me is to care, daily, for myself and my life….. to love and to nurture, within myself, moment by moment, the quality of quiet presence, quietly being present in my life, which sanctifies it, to live as if the candle is alight